Moody

I'm officially ready to admit that my baby girl is a bit, WELL, moody.

Today was a particularly moody day for her.
It's amazing how fast she can go from this happy, adorable smiling face....

To this....

And this......

Then, this.

All I'm missing is the next frame where she's on the ground throwing a fit!

Yep, I think she's going to be my fit thrower. And yes, we are already working on curbing that behavior.

I never allowed Aspen or Journey to throw fits. They weren't particularly inclined to them anyway, so it wasn't hard to stop the behavior. Willow, on the other hand, is definitely a strong willed little girl who knows what she wants, and wants what she wants when she wants it.


We all love her so much, and she has such an engaging personality, and is just so darn cute that it's hard for us not to smile or laugh when she's having her "moments". But I must remember the future. What's cute now will not be so cute in a year or two :)

It was a perfect day

A perfect day to get married.

Troy and Kirstyn's Wedding day! We love you guys and are so happy for you.

Of course my camera died just after this picture. Why wouldn't it? I missed Journey dressed up as cute as can be as the flower girl, the wedding party, the beautiful bride and groom, the setting, everything. Hopefully I can get some pictures from the other people who took pictures that day.

Anyways, the day was perfect. Edgefield is absolutely gorgeous in the Fall with all the changing colors. It was a beautiful crisp fall day with clear blue skies. Kirstyn was radiantly happy and Troy was too (although not like K!).

We got to Edgefield by 5:30pm for family pictures. Journey was super nervous, and every time anyone asked her if she was excited to be the flower girl or if she liked her princess dress, she said "No". Haha, she didn't know how to deal with all the attention.

She was adorable, and did a great job following directions. She was very deliberate about each flower petal she dropped and didn't look at anyone as she made her way down the isle.

Shortly after the ceremony was over, Dan met us at the reception and took all the kids home for us so that we didn't have to miss any of the wedding.

The wedding was a blast. The food and drinks were great. It was fun to catch up with people we haven't seen in a while. The dancing lasted long after the bride and groom left. You know the wedding's good when the party keeps going after the bride and groom leave!

Anyways, we love you guys. I couldn't have hoped for a better new sister. I love you Kirstyn! I always hoped you would be the one for Troy. :)

Aspen wants more sisters.....so he can fight?

Sometimes we have the funniest conversations at bedtime.

Tonight, as I was putting Aspen and Journey to bed, we were talking about Aspen's friend Nash. He's had a lot of behavior problems at school (he's the one that Aspen punched last year for pinching him on St. Patrick's Day, and also the one who Aspen got in a fist fight with on the playground last week. I know, I know, parent of the year here.). I was telling Aspen that maybe he needs us to be praying for him because sometimes bad behavior is a result of bad things happening at home or outside of school.

That got Aspen thinking.

A: "Mom, you know where you pay and get a kid?"

Me: "Hmm, you mean Foster Care?"

A: "Oh, yeah! Like where Janie came from! Well, do you think we could get one of those kids?"

Me: "Uhh, yeah. Maybe someday."

A: "Well, if we did, I'd want us to get another girl. (insert nervous laughter) Cause I like being the biggest brother to my sisters......You know why?"

Me: "Why?"

A: "Because I like to FIGHT!"

Then he proceeded to act out about 40 different scenarios of how he would protect his sisters and beat "them" up if they messed with them. Journey and I just sat back and laughed at all the different ideas he came up with to let "them" have it.

Oh, I love my boy! He can be such a challenge, but is so great with his sisters. They both adore him. Tonight as we were eating dinner, Willow crawled up to his chair, stood up, and hugged around his leg. He calls her "Baby Girl" and says it in the sweetest voice.

I'll have to agree with him, though. He isn't scared to fight. He has a strong sense of justice, and has no problem berating those he sees cheating (and backing it up when they get back in his face too). Ack. I have more work to do in teaching him self control - words and actions...

Sushi Date

We are continuing to work on scripture memory around here. My goal for the year was to have the kids memorize one scripture a month. So far, we are close to hitting that goal.

This time, Journey memorized Romans 8:28. For her reward, I gave her the option of going out for a coffee date, smoothies or sushi date.

She loves sushi and was so excited to go out with me to SushiLand.

I wasn't sure how Willow would like sushi. Gotta bring the fishies just in case!

Journey ate 4-5 plates herself!

You can't tell from the picture, but Willow is eating a bite of sushi too.

Well, we tried our best to get a girl's group shot after sushi.

Either my arms aren't long enough, or the girls are just too wiggly.

It's not easy to get a good shot!

But they sure are fun. I wouldn't trade them for the world, and am enjoying our time together while Aspen is in school so much.

Last year was such a whirlwind of a year with Willow just weeks old when Aspen started school, juggling his 3 hour school schedule, the changing nap schedules that come along with having a new baby, and just the busyness of three kids. Things are a little less hectic the last couple months now that Aspen is in school and Willow is down to one nap a day. I'm so thankful for that, even if it just lasts a little while!

September Beach Trip

Once school started in September, we weren't able to make it back down to the beach until the first weekend in October. We had a lot of fun, just hanging out as a family and great weather. The ocean did not cooporate for Mark to get one last fishing trip in (can anyone say, YAY! ?), so we did other fun things together like go down to Oceanside for the morning, walk to the beach and coffee shop and make fires in the back yard fire pit.

These are a few random pictures from that weekend.

Ok, terrible picture of pretty much all of us, but I wanted to include one of our breakfast out. We rarely go out to eat as a family. It's just too crazy. But we went out for breakfast one morning because we had to leave and didn't want to clean the kitchen up again :)

Waiting for our food to come. Can you feel their energy? :)

Willow is a Daddy's girl. She LOVES crawling all over him, saying 'dadda', and getting quick snuggles and kisses from him. Quick, because you know she is always on the move.

Journey and Willow playing dolls. Oh, and check out Journey's shoes.

The 'beach kitty'! It seems that wherever we go, there is a neighborhood cat that adopts us. The best kind of pet to have!

Over the weekend we worked a little more on clearing out the brush infront of the house and around the creek. Making progress. Soon we will be able to see most of the house from the street.

We worked on clearing the brush while the girls were napping. Aspen was a great help hauling trees and branches, using the clippers and learning to man the sawzall.

Bath time.

All the kids LOVE bath time at the beach.

Besides sharing a bedroom, Aspen and Journey love watching movies in the easy chair together. Pretty special since we don't watch movies at home very often.

Holding Hands

The other day on our way to the beach, I glanced in the back to see Aspen and Journey holding hands. I have never seen them do that, and it was completely unposed.

Like any sibling relationship, they go through phases where they get along really well, and other times where they don't. But I've seen a lot of growth in this area in them lately. I regularly hear them saying "I love you" to each other.

There is nothing better than hearing your kids initiate love to each other!