Being pregnant this time around has actually been a lot easier than it was last time. Aspen was 2 when I was pregnant with Journey, and in the stage where he was really testing boundaries. It was exhausting. I have been quite surprized this time around at how much better I have been feeling in the first trimester than the last two pregnancies. Without going into too much detail, with Aspen I just wanted to die, Journey, it wasn't quite that bad, but I was still pretty miserable, and with this baby, I've been more tired and feel nauseas mostly in the evenings when I am tired. I have been able to continue to work out and keep the house reasonably clean.
Aspen is very excited about the new baby, and tells people about it that we meet all the time. He will be coming to the ultrasound to find out the sex of the baby, and is really looking forward to it. He has also been stepping up to help me out with entertaining Journey, cleaning the house, and doing things to help me out because he knows I am tired and not always feeling great.
One other thing about Aspen because I want to remember later....
Aspen got a really cool remote control rock crawler for Christmas. He loved it for a couple weeks before the engine burned up. He was pretty bummed about that, but instead of asking for a replacement, he came to me and asked if I had any work for him to do so that he could earn money to buy another engine!
I was very excited about that just because it told me that he had connected the whole "gotta work to get what you want" idea of life. A couple days later Mark found some work for him to do (clean the garage, help with cutting down a large shrub in the yard, clean the house, etc.). He was surprized at Aspen's good attitude with what ever work he gave him to do. Seeing progress like this has really given us (well, me!) encouragement that all the hard work of parenting will actually pay off. His questioning, constant boundary pushing personality can really wear us out, and it is so nice to feel like we see some results :)